By reading this site, leaving a comment, sending the form, or sending a guest piece, you are agreeing to the boring bit. I am not a lawyer and this is not a courtroom. It is the house rules for a personal blog run by one woman with a day job.
The writing here is mine unless it says otherwise. Do not copy posts in full and slap them on your own site. Quoting a short line with a link back is fine. Scraping the lot is not. Names, details, and situations are often changed. If you think you have recognised yourself, sit with that privately. Do not turn up in my inbox demanding a rewrite because the vibe felt close.
This is an adult blog. Some pieces are explicit. If that is not for you, leave. Do not send me a sermon. Do not send the posts to someone’s workplace, family, or employer as a weapon. If a piece is locked or marked paid, do not paste it in group chats like you invented it.
Comments
I welcome comments that sound like a person. Agree, disagree, add your own story, ask a straight question. Keep it to the piece in front of you.
I will delete or not approve:
Anything that outs a private person, colleague, date, or reader.
Revenge comments, pile ons, and “I know who this is.”
Slurs, threats, or creepy requests for pictures and meets.
Spam, promo dumps, and crypto nonsense.
Homework for me. I am not your agony aunt on demand.
Work gossip about my job or anyone else’s.
If a thread goes nasty I will shut it. I do not owe anyone a public argument. I also do not owe a reply to every comment. Silence is not a secret code. Sometimes I am at work. Sometimes I have nothing useful to add.
Guest pieces and emails
If I publish you, you confirm the work is yours, that you have the right to send it, and that you have not named people who did not agree to be named. I can edit for clarity, house style, and legal caution. I can say no with no essay attached.
Do not send me other people’s private messages, nudes, or data. Do not ask me to hunt a man from a post. Do not ask me to host files I cannot stand behind.
Use of the site
Read, share links, talk about a piece like an adult. Do not treat this place as dating intake, client booking, or a tip line. Nothing here is medical, legal, or therapy advice. If your body or your relationship needs a professional, go to one.
I can change these rules when the site needs it. If you cannot live with that, this will not be your favourite corner of the internet, and that is all right. Be decent. I will try to do the same.
